04
Feb 25

Antipsychotic Weight Gain and Teens

Teenager“The routine helped her to get through the days, and the activity improved her mood.”

It can be heartbreaking to watch your teen put on unwanted pounds after starting a new medicine. My daughter once gained twenty pounds in one month on a new antipsychotic. It was as though her brain was no longer getting the message that she was full after eating. She would eat a meal and half an hour later be starving. This is a positive story about how a psychiatrist and his patient worked together to get her through it.

While my daughter’s psychiatrist set to work adjusting her medication, she and I began focusing on exercise. She was barely out of psychosis and had been sedentary for some months. Her psychiatrist wanted her to walk for an hour and twenty minutes a day, but the extra weight made her feel exhausted and winded.  He told us to break it into four 20-minute segments per day. Somehow, this seemed manageable to my daughter and we were able to get in a total of 80 minutes of daily walking. The routine helped her to get through the days, and the activity improved her mood.

I removed every scrap of sugar from the kitchen and replaced it with fruit, cut vegetables, and whole grain breads for when she was desperate. I reasoned that if she was going to overeat, at least it would not be calorie-rich food with no nutrition. This limited the weight gain. The psychiatrist also urged me to push high-protein, fiber-rich foods, which satisfy the appetite longer. I tried not to let her eat after dinner. Fortunately, she only had to make it to bedtime because her medicine made her fall asleep ten minutes after she took it.

Fortunately, her doctor had the problem resolved within a month. He slowly cut her offending antipsychotic with a smaller amount of the antipsychotic Geodon. The Geodon counteracted the hunger issue. The nightmare was over, but she was up twenty pounds. We continued with the walks. I took her to the Lily Pulitzer store, and I saw what a difference a well-cut garment can make in terms of flattering a heavy figure. Patterns hide a paunch better than a solid color. The tops I bought her were designed to be worn out, not tucked in, and they were sewn to glide over her hips so that it slimmed her and made it look like she had a waistline. She wore jeggings with boots and that was slimming too. I’ll never forget the day I saw her look in the mirror and smile at herself.

She lost the twenty pounds in two months. Geodon requires food to work. In fact, a couple of clinical trials suggest that 500 calories is the magic number. So I fed her a 500-calorie breakfast and dinner with her medicine, which is taken twice a day. Once we became rigorous about getting her calorie count up with each dose, the appetite-suppressing effect kicked in. Now she wasn’t hungry. She ate a light lunch, usually some low-fat cheese or turkey and a piece of fruit, along with a bottle of water. After the weight came off, it was easier for her to walk and we condensed our walking times. She began running ten minutes a day before our morning walk. When her psychiatrist ran blood work again, we held our breaths, but her cholesterol levels were the best they had been. Then something completely unexpected happened. My blood work was better than it had ever been too!


12
Jan 25

The Secret to Reconnecting with Your Distant Teen

Teenager“Music expresses a teen’s emotions and identity, yet often parents are critical of their teen’s taste in music and it feels like a personal rejection to them.”

As teens mature, they need to separate from their parents and allow their peer group to take precedence. But if you and your teen don’t seem to share anything these days, there is a simple method to bring you closer to your teen and improve trust. Simply put, make yourself useful.

First, identify what your teen loves. You may be able to list several things; for example, video games, music, and wrestling. Second, figure out a way to become involved on a regular basis without annoying your teen. Music is often an easy choice. Music expresses a teen’s emotions and identity, yet often parents are critical of their teen’s taste in music and it feels like a personal rejection to them. You can overcome this lack of understanding by listening to your teen’s music whenever you are in the car together and offering to take them and a friend to some concerts. The “concert mom” or “concert dad” is always looked upon by teens with a friendly eye. In fact, it is pretty much universally agreed that they will one day have a special place in heaven.

If your teen enjoys a sport, it helps to not only attend games but also to join the parent booster club, providing rides and ordering team sweatshirts. The underlying message to all of this is that you care about the things that matter to your teen. Note the difference between that and knowing what’s best for a teen. Teens don’t care what you think is best for them. If you can make yourself a supplier of his social world, you will be silently appreciated.

One note of caution. If your teen’s passion is something that is easiest to fulfill by spending money, hold back. For example, if your teen wants to go on a guided trip through Europe that costs $5,000, help him organize a garage sale or other event to raise funds. Don’t write the check.