07
Feb 25

If You Know a Hurting Teen and Want to Help

Sad Body with Backpack“…you could be saving a life…”

Perhaps your teen has confided in you that he’s concerned about a friend who seems to be suicidal. His parents refuse to do anything about it. There are a couple of strategies you can use here. If the teen is in immediate danger, you can call 911 with the teen’s name and address and they will send an ambulance to his home. Drastic measures, granted, but you could be saving a life.

If the teen is not in immediate danger, you can call the school counselor, asking to be kept anonymous. Do not wait a few days to do this since the situation can change quickly with teens. All it takes is a rip-roaring argument with a parent to send a teen from depressed to suicidal, and you don’t know what is going on in his home. Try to follow up with your own teen to make sure that an intervention involving the parents occurred. If your teen reports that his friend’s parents are not following through with treatment, call the school counselor back. If you are not satisfied with the counselor’s response, you can either call someone at a higher level in the school district or Child Protective Services.

If it is summer and the teen is not in school, try to get the name of his pediatrician. Give the receptionist the name of the teen and explain what you know. Again, you can choose to  remain anonymous. The doctor may not be able to call you back, due to confidentiality laws, but he can call the family.

After you have done your part, it is time to disengage from the drama. Tell your teen that he did the right thing and to let the family take it from there. Give them privacy and move on, knowing that you did the right thing.


04
Feb 25

Antipsychotic Weight Gain and Teens

Teenager“The routine helped her to get through the days, and the activity improved her mood.”

It can be heartbreaking to watch your teen put on unwanted pounds after starting a new medicine. My daughter once gained twenty pounds in one month on a new antipsychotic. It was as though her brain was no longer getting the message that she was full after eating. She would eat a meal and half an hour later be starving. This is a positive story about how a psychiatrist and his patient worked together to get her through it.

While my daughter’s psychiatrist set to work adjusting her medication, she and I began focusing on exercise. She was barely out of psychosis and had been sedentary for some months. Her psychiatrist wanted her to walk for an hour and twenty minutes a day, but the extra weight made her feel exhausted and winded.  He told us to break it into four 20-minute segments per day. Somehow, this seemed manageable to my daughter and we were able to get in a total of 80 minutes of daily walking. The routine helped her to get through the days, and the activity improved her mood.

I removed every scrap of sugar from the kitchen and replaced it with fruit, cut vegetables, and whole grain breads for when she was desperate. I reasoned that if she was going to overeat, at least it would not be calorie-rich food with no nutrition. This limited the weight gain. The psychiatrist also urged me to push high-protein, fiber-rich foods, which satisfy the appetite longer. I tried not to let her eat after dinner. Fortunately, she only had to make it to bedtime because her medicine made her fall asleep ten minutes after she took it.

Fortunately, her doctor had the problem resolved within a month. He slowly cut her offending antipsychotic with a smaller amount of the antipsychotic Geodon. The Geodon counteracted the hunger issue. The nightmare was over, but she was up twenty pounds. We continued with the walks. I took her to the Lily Pulitzer store, and I saw what a difference a well-cut garment can make in terms of flattering a heavy figure. Patterns hide a paunch better than a solid color. The tops I bought her were designed to be worn out, not tucked in, and they were sewn to glide over her hips so that it slimmed her and made it look like she had a waistline. She wore jeggings with boots and that was slimming too. I’ll never forget the day I saw her look in the mirror and smile at herself.

She lost the twenty pounds in two months. Geodon requires food to work. In fact, a couple of clinical trials suggest that 500 calories is the magic number. So I fed her a 500-calorie breakfast and dinner with her medicine, which is taken twice a day. Once we became rigorous about getting her calorie count up with each dose, the appetite-suppressing effect kicked in. Now she wasn’t hungry. She ate a light lunch, usually some low-fat cheese or turkey and a piece of fruit, along with a bottle of water. After the weight came off, it was easier for her to walk and we condensed our walking times. She began running ten minutes a day before our morning walk. When her psychiatrist ran blood work again, we held our breaths, but her cholesterol levels were the best they had been. Then something completely unexpected happened. My blood work was better than it had ever been too!